You or I has been performed 81 time(s) at the following shows:
| Date | Venue | Position | Notes |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2012-07-13 | The Gula-Gula Cafe, Salem, MA | S1 | T06 | Debut. |
| 2012-07-14 | Carson Hill, Harmony, ME | S1 | T06 | |
| 2012-07-20 | High Noon Saloon, Norwich, CT | E1 | T01 | |
| 2012-08-11 | Blue & Gray Bar & Grill, Gettysburg, PA | S1 | T06 | |
| 2012-09-22 | Castle Jauntula, Allston, MA | S1 | T07 | |
| 2012-10-07 | Spotlight Tavern, Beverly, MA | S1 | T06 | |
| 2012-12-01 | Lucky Dog Music Hall, Worcester, MA | S1 | T02 | |
| 2013-01-25 | Pub 32, Storrs, CT | S1 | T09 | |
| 2013-01-31 | Dog Star Tavern, Fernandina Beach, FL | S1 | T04 | |
| 2013-02-15 | High Noon Saloon, Norwich, CT | S1 | T01 | |
| 2013-03-01 | Spotlight Tavern, Beverly, MA | S1 | T01 | |
| 2013-04-09 | Church of Boston, Boston, MA | S1 | T02 | |
| 2013-05-23 | Stella Blue's, New Haven, CT | S1 | T03 | |
| 2013-05-26 | Hampton Taphouse, Hampton, VA | S1 | T06 | |
| 2013-06-01 | The Family Dog, Atlanta, GA | S1 | T08 | |
| 2013-06-12 | The YERB, Richmond, VA | S1 | T01 | |
| 2013-08-16 | Stanley's Pub, Cincinnati, OH | S1 | T06 | |
| 2013-08-20 | Trouser Mouse, Blue Springs, MO | S1 | T02 | |
| 2013-08-23 | The Summit, Durango, CO | S1 | T01 | |
| 2013-08-28 | Three20South, Breckenridge, CO | S1 | T05 | |
| 2013-08-30 | Carl's Tavern, Steamboat Springs, CO | S1 | T02 | |
| 2013-10-12 | Private Party, Nottingham, NH | S1 | T05 | |
| 2013-11-02 | The Boneyard, Atlantic City, NJ | S2 | T05 | |
| 2013-11-15 | Electric Haze, Worcester, MA | S1 | T02 | |
| 2014-01-08 | Triumph Brewing Company, New Hope, PA | S1 | T01 | |
| 2014-01-17 | 909 Saloon, Fredericksburg, VA | S1 | T04 | |
| 2014-01-24 | Stella Blue's, New Haven, CT | S1 | T04 | |
| 2014-02-01 | Black Oak Tavern, Oneonta, NY | S1 | T04 | |
| 2014-03-20 | Nietzche's, Buffalo, NY | S1 | T04 | |
| 2014-04-25 | Penuche's Ale House, Manchester, NH | S1 | T02 | |
| 2014-05-25 | Fitzie's Irish Pub, Binghamtom, NY | S1 | T04 | |
| 2014-06-04 | Hideaway Saloon, Louisville, KY | S1 | T03 | |
| 2014-06-14 | The Skinny Pancake, Burlington, VT | S1 | T07 | |
| 2014-06-22 | Roux!, Charlotte, NC | S1 | T04 | |
| 2014-07-09 | Nowhere Bar, Athens, GA | S1 | T06 | |
| 2014-07-16 | The Pour House, Charleston, SC | S1 | T04 | |
| 2014-10-09 | Jimmie's Ladder 11, Dayton, OH | S1 | T05 | |
| 2014-10-21 | The Demo, St. Louis, MO | S1 | T04 | |
| 2014-10-23 | Rudyard Kipling, Louisville, KY | S1 | T07 | |
| 2014-12-05 | Preservation Pub, Knoxville, TN | S1 | T04 | |
| 2014-12-12 | Green Bar, Tuscaloosa, AL | S1 | T06 | |
| 2015-02-05 | Martin's Downtown, Roanoke, VA | S1 | T04 | |
| 2015-03-18 | Hideaway Saloon, Louisville, KY | S1 | T02 | |
| 2015-03-23 | Sanchos Broken Arrow, Denver, CO | S1 | T04 | |
| 2015-03-28 | Black Nugget Saloon, Carbondale, CO | S1 | T06 | |
| 2015-04-01 | Fly Me To the Moon Saloon, Telluride, CO | S1 | T04 | |
| 2015-06-04 | Martin's Downtown, Roanoke, VA | S1 | T03 | |
| 2015-12-08 | The Blind Tiger, Greensboro, NC | S1 | T04 | Last time played 6/4/15 (49 shows) |
| 2016-04-21 | Pacific Standard Tavern, New Haven, CT | S1 | T03 | |
| 2016-05-19 | Blue Side Tavern, Frederick, MD | S1 | T04 | |
| 2016-05-25 | The Whiskey, Wilmington, NC | S1 | T03 | |
| 2016-06-03 | The Ante Room, Charlottesville, VA | S1 | T10 | Preceded by Happy Birthday to John Loland. |
| 2016-08-26 | Victoria Tavern, Salida, CO | S2 | T06 | |
| 2016-09-16 | B.R.Y.A.C., Bridgeport, CT | S1 | T06 | |
| 2016-11-12 | The Rabbit Hole, Charlotte, NC | S1 | T01 | |
| 2016-11-18 | Nowhere Bar, Athens, GA | S1 | T03 | |
| 2016-12-08 | The Dock, Ithaca, NY | S1 | T04 | "Frere Jacques" (Rameau) tease |
| 2017-02-26 | Bodega's Alley, Lincoln, NE | S1 | T01 | |
| 2017-03-09 | Victoria Tavern, Salida, CO | S1 | T03 | |
| 2017-06-09 | Garryowen Irish Pub, Gettysburg, PA | S1 | T12 | |
| 2017-06-21 | 1904 Music Hall, Jacksonville, FL | S1 | T02 | |
| 2017-06-28 | Southbound Smokehouse, Augusta, GA | S1 | T06 | |
| 2017-07-06 | Cattivo, Pittsburgh, PA | S1 | T03 | |
| 2017-09-02 | Be On Key Psychadelic Ripple, Denver, CO | S1 | T02 | |
| 2017-11-04 | Declaration Brewery, Denver, CO | S1 | T09 | |
| 2017-11-29 | The 8x10, Baltimore, MD | S1 | T04 | |
| 2017-12-14 | The Blue Canoe, Tupelo, MS | S1 | T03 | |
| 2018-02-24 | Hogan's Pub, Clarkston, WA | S1 | T04 | |
| 2018-03-02 | Volcanic Theater, Bend, OR | S1 | T05 | |
| 2018-05-20 | Deep Ellum Art Company, Dallas, TX | S1 | T06 | |
| 2018-06-12 | Silk City, Philadelphia, PA | S1 | T02 | |
| 2018-10-03 | Skipper's Smokehouse, Tampa, FL | S1 | T02 | |
| 2018-10-13 | The Deli, Norman, OK | S1 | T03 | |
| 2018-11-16 | Hogan's Pub, Clarkston, WA | S2 | T04 | |
| 2019-04-26 | Gottrocks, Greenville, SC | S1 | T04 | |
| 2019-05-11 | The Acoustic, Bridgeport, CT | S1 | T04 | |
| 2019-06-06 | The Grand Z Casino, Central City, CO | S1 | T05 | |
| 2019-06-26 | Talent Club, Talent, OR | S1 | T02 | |
| 2019-11-12 | Barley's, Knoxville, TN | S1 | T09 | |
| 2020-01-17 | Victoria Tavern, Salida, CO | S1 | T02 | |
| 2020-06-14 | The Jaunt Basement, Niwot, CO | S1 | T07 |